NT...that sucks. Sorry dude. I know exactly how you feel. I just found out that my H is moving to a new apartment w/OW. It's all good though...he got more bills and responsibilities...I got more space for my shoes! Bought a cute pair of 'deadbeat-H-moving-in-with-skank-but-I'm-gonna-be-a-fab-diva-anyway' pair of boots when I heard this little bit of news.

But this is one more reason why you have to detach from her. No more letters, no more emails, TM's, PM's, M&M's....whateva. It does nothing for you but keeps the focus on her and what she is doing. I know its hard...very hard but you have to do it or your going to keep tearing yourself apart.

Please try...it's no fun walking on eggshells. Been there...done that...ain't going back...4-shizzle baby!

LJ