Karen: What would happen if I really let loose? Dunno - probably he would consider leaving.
LFL: Really? He doesn't seem like the type, but you'd know better than me. And is that your fear? Is that why you are hesitent to confront him full force? I agree with the others that you need to ramp it up a little and show how hurt and angry you are.
That's why I'm suggesting you first get in touch with your rageful feelings here among friends. I agree that your H doesn't seem like the sort of person who would walk. In fact, if he saw you totally unglued, he might very well rise to the alpha level. But that's for down the road, if at all. First, let it loose in front of us! We'll love you no matter what (and we're not walking out no matter what either!)
