RJ,
I love you! You always know just what to say.

I love your suggestion about asking for a hug when I feel off. What you said about how the anxiety builds is dead on. I feel like you're inside my head.

It is good to know this is par for the course. It helps me to take the pressure off myself.

Thanks.

Married 9 years
Kids 5 and 6
Bomb 2006
H back and forth for a year
M now back on track