AMY, hi there I was just reading your post and I felt a knot in my stomach after reading about your D thinking that H was fun in his drunken state. I was recently faced with the reality that some of my H's actions has cause a friction between my D and me who already had a strained relationship just because I am not as fun and cuddly and open with her as dad. well I thought okay during a marriage one parent can be the fun one and the other would be the police officer which I have been but I now see that my D has resented me for being the Police officer. anyways I am just rambling but I wanted to say hello just because I am having a rough time not only with H but with my oldest D as well and I am trying to learn better strategies on understanding her and helping her through this turmoil, all the while I don't even know how to hel myself through this....
me:29, H 33 Bomb- 11/06/2006 I came home from work to find that he had moved out into an apartment. next day he says he wants to work on our marriage but will not return until he feels right. kids-4 m-10 years T- 13 years another Bomb-Sept '07 OW confirmed...
