sideswiped~ hello, I just wanted to offer some support. I am pretty new here myself but I am 1 year into my seperation. I just wanted to suggest that you take the advice of these people here with wisdom... I thought my situation is different there were so many positive signs that I never really committed with both feet to letting go and letting H find himself. I wish I had given him the opportunity early on and I would know now where I stand. I am now apply the LRT, because well frankly it IS THE LR... I wish I wasn't at the stage were there ARE NO OTHER OPTIONS and so far into this pit. I just say while it is still early on read and DB your but off and hopefully it won't be so drawn out... and congrats on your new job.... are you leaving the family home? is he gonna stay there???


me:29, H 33
Bomb- 11/06/2006 I came home from work to find that he had moved out into an apartment. next day he says he wants to work on our marriage but will not return until he feels right.
kids-4
m-10 years
T- 13 years
another Bomb-Sept '07 OW confirmed...