I will say that my W says that "she didn't get it"...and I thought that I couldn't have been any clearer on the matter. BUT, she DID know that things were bad...was trying to do something about it...was re-reading ssm and discovered the board, came here, and found "me" and all the stuff I'd said. It was only then that she (says) started to "get" it. REALLY get it.
