Hopefloats and short1, thanks for the reply and that was kind of what I was expecting to hear. I am strongly thinking about changing my mind, I just feel very foolish doing so. As I have said it is a black tie affair and he has had to allready send in the response ticket to tell what kind of meals we wanted. He said that he already did that. How do I cancel now? or should I just really lay down the law. This is someone both my H and I are were friends with & would expect to still be in the future. I know him well enough that If I really had to say stop or no, I know he would listen and respect me. I just think that he is getting excited thinking that he might have a chance with me, but he does know and see my pain and what I am going through right now. He truely can just be a nice guy and a friend to me. I am scared of how I am going to handel this sitch. My H and I are legally seperated now, and I wouldnt think he should be able to hold this against me (if anything I'm the one that could say he abandoned me for a bisexual stripper). Most people see it as a way for me to go out and have fun and thats all. I just dont know what to do now? TIPPER
