so true ... my H used to judge our friends saying this one is going to cheat and that one is not devoted to his wife and wow look who became the cheater!
I have told him that I love him but never said the leaving part. guess i am worried he will believe it and take it as permission. He has always treated me as the parent and seems to be wanting permission in some twisted way. He says he wants the D and his mind is made up and in the mext breath says but you asked me to think about it and I will. Someone said I should shock him and say fine if you want the D then go for it and see if that shocks him. problem is is that it may push him!
