P.S. He came over today to take the kids to the park and was amazed that I had the tree down myself. Actually I took all the stuff down, D8 put the decorations away and S11 and his friend helped put the tree outside and the boxes upstairs ready for the attic. Teamwork at its best, I was so proud of our little accomplishment and he noticed! I even got him to re-hang my bedroom screen even though when I asked he said, like he always does, I am in a hurry. He always seems to be in a hurry these days. Probably in a hurry to get away from me more likely!! \:\)

Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9
Separated 90 days 6/28/05
H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv
Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now
H Filed for D 7/08