I Was Almost A WAW....Still (Next Thread)

[Dom R]

I have let go of [grandson] a lot just this past year. I love him with all my being, but he has a lot of growing up to do and he had a lot of problems. My H and I have been the only thing stable in his life and that was one of the guilt trips I would take about me and OM was the affect it would take on him as well as the others.

Sandi, I understand where you are at on this one. You love him very much, and want to protect him.

When "children" are all grown up though... sometimes, that's the worst possible thing to do. especially boys.

Yes, you want to avoid him suffering.
Sometimes, though, that's the only way people can "grow".
If you shield him from it, he will never be able to grow and become stronger.

It kinda sounds like you know all this already, but it also sounds like you maybe need to hear someone else saying it as well.
So, I'm saying it for you


Okay, peace, love and harmony... breathe.... pixie dust... because my next post is going to be rather radical.