What hurts is that given the opportunity my H is choosing the other woman. That hurts and is a huge blow to my ego.he is rejecting me
Oh I know. I truly know. Its very devastating.
And yes, I wish H would have grabbed me by the shoulders and yelled in my face "We need help! We are in trouble!", but no, he kept quiet about his unhappiness and then did this. And yes, I thought we were 'exempt' from affairs, H actually frowned upon it in the past. Amazing what changes.
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Of course they walk away and you are still in love because you did not see it coming!
Yep, that's why its called a bomb. I swear I didn't see it coming at all. H even said 2 weeks ago how awful he felt, he had time to get used to us being apart (if he ever leaves!), but I have had NO time to get used to it, still in shock.
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Today he thanked me for respecting his privacy by not texting him or phoning him.
This is good. By the way, I shocked my H when I said "I just want you to know, I will love you always, in one way or another. I want you happy. I wish it were with me, but I will accept it if you choose another path. Because you being happy means that you will be an even better parent." He didn't believe that I wanted him happy, up until I mentioned the kids.
