This friend now thinks that we are going to get physically involved with each other that night(he is even telling me he thinks that this is destiny).

Cancel. Do not go.
Your "friend" is taking advantage of you right now. You're in no position to be getting involved with anyone. Do not put yourself into a situation where this may become more than you can handle.

Everyone keeps saying I deserve to go out with someone like my friend who can show a woman a good time and be a gentelman to me.
This is not how a gentleman behaves. You yourself called him a player. He's playing with fire and you could be, too. Don't do this if you have any intention of saving your marriage. Further, don't give your husband any ammunition to use against you if this gets to a divorce situation; he could claim adultery on you.

Last edited by hopefloats7; 01/06/08 07:39 PM.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.