In Support of Strong Puppy

[Stigmata]

Any of my meaningful interactions with Fs came out of a result of them pursuing me.

Yuck. Big turn-off reading this.

Whew. I'd hate to think I was posting on divorcebusting.com in order to turn OP on.

Hm, in that case maybe I should go to victoriassecret.com and do a search for power tools.:)

Or I suppose I could lie and say I plied Fs, including x, with gifts, flowers, dinners and jewlry when it was not the case. And, believe me, I'm no [insert your ideal man/movie star/raconteur here].

Yes, I most definitely would not say that were I to have a profile on a site like match.com -- for the very reason you reacted like that. I was wondering which one of you ladies might be first to grab on to that. My money actually was on LFL.

Neither here nor there in the grand scheme.

But what I have found are Fs with strong reactions are often post or transitioning former feminists who, while once yelling at me for opening their doors, now rail at me for not kissing their azzes and placing them in the CU chair in the dating process.

It seems usually to be out of a sense of entitlement that I must always validate them first so they might feel sexy and empowered ... instead of just being confident of her own sexiness and letting the chemistry work itself out no matter who makes the first move.

I don't care who does the chasing. In fact, my responding to an F I really like and not letting the line go slack can technically be classified as me chasing.

I've been called an arrogant male before by Fs who really didn't know me but it was usually out of their preconceived notion of how they must be the ones who are the center of attention from the very first step in the dating process without exception -- ie, "the prize."

Equinamity and Equality manifestations. I know I'm not typical of the guys who will actually pay for some F they don't even know but only met online to fly across the country to see them. I can go to Starbucks around the corner and find one in the flesh. Creeps me out.

I don't see prizes nor do I particularly see myself as a prize -- especially after the damage inflicted on my heart after being cheated on more than once.

Think about it. Why would a guy who is vibing reasonably wolf to me bother to court a woman on the phone for a month and pay to fly her out just to get laid? Heck, if that is the case, I'm just gonna feel real validated for being super hot - lol.

Do you really want my answer? Not saying it's the God's Truth but were I in this position or mind set (thank God I'm not) with loads of $$ to burn I would find it rather convenient to order Fs online like pizzas and have them fly from the hinterlands every weekend to screw me before sending them off to the airport again with a nice pinch to the cute @ss. (provided they have not shown up 200 lbs above what they claimed in their profiles).

so not to burst your bubble, Mojo, but let's just say I highly doubt an unmarried 41 YO male with recent financial success who wants no kids but only after a month wants to just have fun in Mexico with an F he hardly knows doesn't have other irons in the fire and is not new at his online approach.

Commitment-phobes usually don't like fishing locally. Gets too messy after the fun is over. IMO

-Stigmata-