Thanks lwb. This is such a nightmare. Just a few months ago we were a "happy" couple with our new baby and now I am a single mom with a WAS who is with OW. Weird how this happened cos I was always sure that D would never happen to us and then life happens!!! If H said there was a problem or atleast wanted to work on things in the beginning that would have been easier but he just blew me away. He gave me no chance. Amazing for someone who cried when he said his wedding speech, who wrote me beautiful poetry and was always concerned that I would someday leave him....
Thanks for great advice. I want to confront her but I wont. It feels like the natural thing to do, the final resort. What hurts is that given the opportunity my H is choosing the other woman. That hurts and is a huge blow to my ego.he is rejecting me. He wont even touch my hand and if i lean towards him he jumps back and says'dont touchme!' WHY?. This alienation is what hurts. Of course they walk away and you are still in love because you did not see it coming!
I am starting work in a week as I have been at home with our baby for a year and I am looking for an apartment. So there is the beginning of getting a life. I have read DB and trying to get a copy of DR. problem is when you are already seperated it is hard to implement things.
Today he thanked me for respecting his privacy by not texting him or phoning him.
