Okay, here is the real root of it. If I am just a primitive woman squatting in front of the campfire, I will follow the Wolf when he calls. However, I will leave him to follow the bigger Wolf when he arrives in town. But consider the classic gesture of romance which is the man who kneels in front of you to ask for your hand in marriage. There is no way a man can render himself more vulnerable than that. My 2bx never did that and that is why I don't consider that I had a commitment to honor.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
