so what is there to do? forget about it and try not to be so hurt, resentful, right? but the problem is that now she knows she has "won", and stays in control. i have tried it a thousand times, and it just doesn't feel right. then i get all these mixed signals from her: she calls me honey,and is affectionate but there is no end result. do i expect it all of the time? not at all. there just isn't enough sex in my life to just shrug her refusal away and just say, ok no problem. and telling her that i was going to be great won't do anything.
i am just tired of feeling rejected and watching her not even feel how i feel and not even trying anything to change it. she knows that sex will be good and that she will orgasm. the frustration is her not even trying to get started, not even saying ok i'll try and then before you know it, she's saying i don't know why i never want to do this. she has said this 1,000 times after she is satisified.
