Any of my meaningful interactions with Fs came out of a result of them pursuing me.
Yuck. Big turn-off reading this.
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Sigh. I'll give you a pass on account of your gender, silly girl. Not the same. Quite different actually
I know. I didn't express myself well. I meant that it was a male code message, not that it was the same message. My second sister who is a happily married former party girl married to a former gang member party boy told me that her H signaled something like this when they hooked up. However, I do agree with you that if I am wrong your two interpretations are the most likely alternatives. The context is that he is 41, never married, no desire for children, recently achieved great deal of career/financial success and has life-list of things he'd much better enjoy doing with female companionship. He doesn't want to sip a chocolate malted with me but I think that he really would like me to go to Mexico with him to get tattooed (I informed him that although I like the idea of Mexico and the idea of tattoos, I don't like the combination-lol)almost as much as he would like to have sex with me. Think about it. Why would a guy who is vibing reasonably wolf to me bother to court a woman on the phone for a month and pay to fly her out just to get laid? Heck, if that is the case, I'm just gonna feel real validated for being super hot - lol.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
