Seems like your wife hid in the gaming world my H hid in the work world. Something in them consumed them and took them over.
Its not a slam to your wife at all, its just the truth of an outsider looking in at the truth. I now am beginning to see that with my H. Work came first nothing else could hold a candle to it.
Sounds very much like an addiction one that you cannot help her with, she has to realize she out that first in her life, nothing else. Not you , you sound like you tried to help, get her to take a break, but she did not and does not see it. Someday I hope she will, but you cannot fix that part that is wrong.
you are right show total lack of willingness to compromise, it show a lot of other things too.
I cannot judge your statement of you may be better with out her, for she may at some point get what she has done and realize it, but as you say tough thing to realize.
Hope you are feeling ok, how is it going with the meds? Let me know
(((hugs))) phbear
Me 42-Him 40 T20yrs Married 16yrs 2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore" 6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW 12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce
