Just to clarify re my woman friend, this has no romantic overtones, but of course, you never can tell what the future brings. I don't forsee anything happening but I never thought my M would end either! I am very aware of my emotional neediness right now and certainly keep our friendship as is. It's nice to have someone to do things with, even if it is just a coffee on a Friday night. So, don't go thinking things folks Oh, and my W does know about her just as she knew about Coffee Buddy.