Well a week since my last post. It seems it's all come unraveled this week. Yep the separation agreement came into play I got the responses from her attorney on Wednesday and things took a big step backwards based on the changes he wants made. We tried to talk about it on Wednesday night but the conversation kept going back to the past. Why every conversation does I don't know. I just want to look at the future and implement solutions not rehash the past. Why does she keep bring up the past?
it's what happens with legal stuff. it brings up the fight response. and you dont want to be on friendly terms with your enemy in a fight, so you justify to yourself how horrible they are, to justify fighting against them.
she can only do that by hanging on to the past. so that's what she's doing.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
