yep...I have written a draft email of how I want him to come get his stuff and make a list of other things he wants to take etc. I have emailed it to my sister to get an objective opinion and will also show my counsellor on Tuesday before I send it to him.
I dont' really have somewhere outside of the house that I can put his stuff. I have got a fair bit of his stuff stacked up in the spare room which he can take at any time (just dont want d6 to see) but there's other stuff around the house that he will want and I want to have time to prepare for that (emotionally mostly)