Happy New Year, Mermaid! It's so nice to read this.
Originally Posted By: mermaid
I have been distancing myself from h quite a bit. As my life moves in another direction I have no interest in interacting with him. I am not sure if I am just trying to protect myself or if I am not as healed as I would like to think.
Both of those options seem to have a negative spin. How about that fact that he's just not someone you would really care to know if you didn't have children together? That's how I feel.
I can't say if you should or shouldn't file, but I CAN say that I'll be signing on the dotted line sometime this month - maybe even next week - and I am really looking forward to this being OVER. It's bittersweet, of course, since I never wanted it to happen, but it will be a relief when it's done.
Best wishes to you and your girls!
Nicola
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