Some women say they want to see puppy, OK may be to pet and mother, but when the puppy wants to play aggressive, watch out. Stay in puppy mode too long then the wolf loses his costume. In effect, the woman got to look behind the Wizzard of OZ curtain and then that is what she sees.
If the puppy is playing aggressive, it's not the puppy, it's the monkey. I do agree with what you are saying here about staying in puppy mode too long. However, it's really a matter of balance or showing dichotomy. Also, the thing to realize is that all these animals do exist authentically within you. When you are being strong wolf, you are showing the honest wolf part of your identity. If you are just putting on a wolf costume then you are being weak wolf, just acting macho and your act will easily be dissembled. However, sometimes putting on the costume can make it easier to bring out the true animal. When I say that I won't "play a man bunny" but I will "let him play me bunny", what I am really saying is that I won't put on a fake costume of soft femininity and bat my eyes to attract a man but I will let down my lioness or clever monkey guard enough that he can find/see/interact with the true bunny. OTOH, if I wanted to mate in true lioness mode, I could summon up the true part of my identity that would allow me to stare right back at a wolf staring at me. It's just easier to do when I'm in a bit of a "f*ck you'" mood and I'm wearing high-heeled boots and something bluesy is playing and it's round 'bout midnight and I've had a couple shots of tequila. The simple fact that I like something about that scenario is the proof that the lioness exists. The simple fact that I also really do like being told that I'm "pretty as a basket of speckled puppies" and holding hands is the proof that the bunny exists also.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
