Be proactice in how he moves his stuff out of the joint house. Do not set yourself up for more hurt or a reason to feel worse. Prepare yourself. .
This is good advice. The list I gave him yesterday of the things he owns is 'apparently' not complete (yes I know that but I'm not fully aware of what other things he believes are his and he hasn't/won't tell me what they are). I had my list of things I wanted to keep, one of which was the bedroom suite and he said I wasn't getting all of it. Sheesh...there's like a bed, a tallboy and a bedside chest of drawers and that's it.
What are some ways I can be more proactive about him getting his stuff? [/quote]
Hi again guys....hoping to get some ideas about how I can be more proactive about him getting his stuff without being vindictive (like getting movers to just take all his stuff and dump it on his doorstep)
