Doesn't mean you're not human and don't have an ultimate dealbreaker. I think everyone should sit down and figure out what that is if they don't already know. That is your line in the sand. It's kind of a reassuring end point to let you know you won't be forever swirling in a stressful unknown limbo.
Guess what my new one is? LMAO You cheat on me once, you are out ... the ... door. No passing Go, no collecting $100
I think you are being a little naive here Stig. I've said this before about BF and Corri I think. This severe approach, when it comes to M, is not realistic. The fact of the matter is M is F-ing hard. The majority of men and probably women today will go outside their M to meet some physical and emotional needs. They will sometimes even leave you (personal experience there). Do you think the LFL's, or the IC's, or whoever else, expected to be living this kind of M? No. Would we be here today trying to make our M better than ever if we decided "well, that's a dealbreaker, sorry, the M is done." And believe me, I thought like you, as I think most people do when they start a R/M. "I'd never take him back if he left." or "I'd never forgive her if she cheats." But people do and they can come out stronger. The choice is deal with the problems in your M or drop every R/M that comes into trouble. That's a lot of R/M's to go through in one lifetime I'd say. So ultimate dealbreakers? boundaries? I just dunno anymore...
