M I think every sitch is different My H said he will take care of us and has dont that this past year but I too wonder how much longer he will do it I have seen a lawyer and the first time H doesnt follow thru i will go back so if you can seek counseling by an attorney you can get information without H knowing then if H doesnt pay you already have a plan of action peace
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