Funny you said that Eddie because that's basically what happened.
H and I had a great day.
This afternoon we went upstairs while the kids watched a dvd. Actually, I went upstairs first and he was taking forever to get the dvd to work. So...I decided to start without him. By the time he got upstairs I was about ready to explode. I jumped on top of him and I think my assertiveness through him for a loop. Poor guy didn't know what hit him. But he was having none of it for some reason. He said "uh-uh, I don't think so" in a devious voice and flipped me over fast and hard. He pinned my arms down to my sides and used his mouth on me. Well, that took about 30 seconds since I was already primed and ready to go. This also gets him totally horny so as soon as I was having an amazing O he thrust into me and told me to talk dirty to him. Not like him at all. And even LFL is too shy to say exactly what happened next but let's just say I gave him much deserved affirmations on his style and technique. It was perfect.
So I was able to cook our meal with my aftersex glow just as I hoped. Ate too much but I figure I got at least a little exercise today.
And so today's lesson is that afternoon sex is the way to go. Not too tired yet and gives you a great start to the evening. Also ladies (or gentlemen), if you are feeling a little passive, it is hot to masturbate a little before the action starts because it makes you much more aggressive with your partner. Class dismissed.