jab, what are you learning about yourself through this process? I hear a lot about her and her reactions to you and of course you are pleased by that but I want to know how you are being changed under these conditions...through sobriety, etc...
How much of your self-satisfaction is caught up in the fact she is reaching out? How much is based on new revelations about yourself, separate from her?
In those answers, you yourself can gauge where you are at this point...
