Question about OW

[fooled again]

Hi mymonkeybug,

I am so sorry for what you are going through. (((hugs)))

I too contacted OW & she called back. We spoke several times and even met once. She claimed to not know that my H and I were still together (he just lived in the basement but there was supposedly nothing b/w us), so either he lied to her too, or she lied to me and was manipulating me. It didn't take long for me to reach a point where I didn't know what what real anymore. Plus, she learned too much about me.

Either way, you probably won't get what you're looking for from OW. I did learn many, many dets of the A, which OW was happy to tell me about, and I still don't know if it was a good thing or a bad thing as now I have many awful images and memories to deal with.

SallyM & saffie are right, read DB & DR. It'll help you get your mind around this.

Take care of yourself.
FA