I guess I'm confused...why go to ow at all? your h is the one who betrayed you.

my best advice right now would be to pick up db/dr and read them. dr has the better section on infidelity.

I'm sorry you are dealing with this. I know how awful it is. (((HUGS)))

M-41
H-38
M-10 years, T-14 years
Bomb-PA 3/19/07
Separated-6/7/07
Piecing/h back home 5/08
S-6
S-4
D-4

"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"

-Mary Anne Radmacher