OK, I believe H is having at minimum an emotional affair given eveidence via cell phone and text records and has been since early October. So of course as the LBS I tried calling her twice and sent her 2 texts the day I found out. She never replied to the texts or answered the calls. I didn't leave any voicemail and the texts I sent were me playing dumb asking who this was as I didn't recognize the number on my cell phone bill. I am fully aware that her lack of response probably indicates she is aware of who I am.
So my question is this:
Do I just leave it alone or do I give in to this urge to leave her voicemails informing her that she is involved with a married man with 2 little kids at home and remember hell hath no furry like a woman scourned?
I am sure everyone will tell me to leave it alone but help me through this by just yelling it at me please.
Both 35 T 19/M 15 years S8/D5 It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07