In my opinion, maybe you should see how it goes hanging out with him and just spending time together. Give it a week or two and if it feels like things don't seem to be progressing, pull back some. Go into it with NO expectations, that would be the best thing for you. I can't stand this ride. I felt horrible last night because of the feelings I have of being replaced so easliy. Then around 11pm I get a text "what are u doing" a couple of text exchanges and then nothing else. It's weird. sometimes I wonder Why? Why is he texting me for no reason? Who knows. Remember to not try and read his mind, you can't do it and you'll just make yourself crazy. Hope you are feeling well. After you go to the lawyer on the 14th, I'd be interested to hear what they tell you as far as custody goes, especially when she's a newborn. Have a good weekend and stay dry. It's really gloomy out there. But, sometimes I love this kind of weather.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him