So ultru-submissive or top him? hmmmm.... I'll see how my mood is later and let you know the results.
Why not both?
We finally completed a "flip" maneuver, starting with her on top and ending with me on top without breaking contact. It was a big hit. Since I'm not talking to him, you'd have to choreograph the flip in whichever direction you like.
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.