In the past I would have been a bit hurt by this but this time I simply smiled, kissed her, and said "Hmmm, I guess you married poorly. Must suck to be you." She didn't get angry and actually I did not feel any resentment or anger.
By Jove, I think you're getting it!
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.
