Well if you mean in the dating my wife realm I believe we've done a great deal of that. If you mean in the way I look at this then yeah maybe your right. I am having a hard time figuring out where I am.
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your wife was seeing things as done. Maybe. Don't know.
Not sure I'm following you here. You mean done with our progression? This is where we were headed.
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Do you like talking to your wife... about something that might get her dander up... but not necessarily piss her off? I keep going back to my Harmonic Oscillator discussion, but you may not know anything about that. However... an HO discussion is more like a philosophical discussion that really may not have a resolution per sey... it's more of a point/counter point thing... foreplay with words.
I do. We have a great deal of philosophical discussions together. We've both seen a great deal of change in ourselves due to the obstacles we've been through. I know what an HO is, I have a physics background. But have never heard it as applied to a discussion.
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Dunno. I think you just keep going back to the same ole' same ole, which is, in part, what got you to your moratorium. You just need to change horses. Completely. I think.
Sometimes I do. In phases. My pattern has been to have a great realization, make changes, then when the resulting changes are not great enough I fall back into the same ole pattern of wondering what next and stressing on it. And of course lately that's when I post here, when I'm frustrated.
I see this also in my students. I call it a mental health crisis. When a person experiences tremendous growth but then for some reason falls back to old habits of thinking. I do recognize the pattern in myself. fortunately the crisis is short lived with me.
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Find a new path. Stretch yourself. Something completely and absolutely NEW. That way... you are both on unfamiliar ground and you both... then... are equal. You are feeling a bit unsure... she is feeling a bit unsure... it equals out the sense of... who has power.
Does that make any sense? There is something very... provocative about completely new.
Makes a lot of sense. I will think on this.
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IMHO
Uh I can't ever remember you being humble :-)
So Corri would you mind telling me what state you went to middle school in? weird question I know.
