H and I own business together, still talking

[grid, lost]

Must be a huge crate for the size of your dogs.

LOL, no, all biggie dog crates stay here in house most of time, use them for feeding and after bath, etc. Actually to be honest after having these big guys eveything and I do mean everything looks small. Crates, dogs, grooming tables, you name it. LOL one time I said to H now we have BMDs every other dog looks small to me. He replied, they look small to you because they are comparred to our dogs .
This crate is a siize down and use this size for dog shows. Small enough to lug around and large enough dog can lay down in ok. Since dog isn't spending a lot of time in crate, at show, he is not in need of a 5 star crate to stay in. the crates take up so much room in vehicle for show travel want them as small as possible.! Of course smaller the crate less they weigh.

Went out with S25 and some of his friends last night.

Had a good time, they thought I was ok for an old guy. They want me to go out again tonight with them.

running with the young crowd these days are we. lol????? I bet everyone has fun when you are in crowd. Have a feeling you can tell a lot of good stories and jokes.

She about got sick when I told her how much I paid when I went to U of Cincinnati, back then it was $249 per quarter

, Price of school these days is insane!!! Feel sorry for kids these days. How are they suppose to get ahead with cost of everything. Salaries just do not keep up for them.
I have wanted to take a additional college course here and there, Yikes, cost! Forget! We do have a tech. school runs a lot of short courses in evening for adults only. Everything from dog training, to sign language. I keep trying to get them to do carpentary (sp) for woman. No success. Maybe I should just call the union (captry. union) and ask them to hold a class, now that is an idea. Maybe I'll just do that.

W said she was going to babysit GS tonight maybe I'll stop over and see her and talk about the DR. Phil thing. Friends funeral is Sunday, might take her out for dinner afterwards. W asked me Friday night why I wanted to go out to dinner with her, I told her because I like spending time with you, it was good to see you Christmas and NYE. That even though you want a D, i still love you and enjoy your company. I think I should have left out the I still love you.

Awe, hurts to hear you say you should have left out the I love you part. Really sad, shows what a hurtful situation we are in. And yes, I am feeling sorry for myself. funny you would post this as just returned from couple miles of walklng with my dog Mark. I was thinking just about the same thing about H, emotion wise.
Now remember if you talk with W about Dr. P, must run home and post, everyone is sitting on edge of their chair to hear about W's thoughts. Since I am jealous of your success, lol, had to send email with what took place for H and I. Our only edge would be if they wanted to do show on OW, over load of major life (negative) events, financial distress, and disability.
I even presented email as if the "three of us" would come on show.!! How you like thatone, OW, H and self. Somehow I do not see H and OW willing to come on Dr P show !!

Now back to your W, careful if have dinner with her after funeral as her emotions are going to be low and hurting. Then again maybe she will be emotionally at a point of willing to take in exactly what you are saying and what she is about to do. I sure do wish the very best for you Mike. Do feel your W is getting close to either agreeing to put D on hold or try MC. When do you go to court? Have you found a MC yet? Just keeping on you about this as you will have such a short time window and last thing W needs is empty time to consider backing away! Then again maybe my thoughts and plan would totally back fire on you. That is what is so hard, don't know what to do.
BTW, I am seriously considering the Marriage Coach with DBing. H will be here Jan. 17th and we will be spending all day 18th together. Might be wise to talk with a coach before then and have a plan in place. What do you think?
I am going to give H a birthday gift.
My next book to read is titled: "Anger, a miss understood emotion". Now realize we both tossed a lot of anger around.
I don't know about yourself but I just keep kicking myself for never seeing the light and reading a few books before all this happen. Try to believe it was the illness and failure to be able to mind read H. Illness causes you to become so self centered. Don't mean to but just feel so rotten no one else seems to be able to reach you.

Talked with him for about 45 min. Told him about a few things. Told him major problem was her job hours the last 4+ years,

I just can't figure out your W with this job???!! Why is the question for which there seems to be not a clues to an answer. Do you have any idea why your W would keep such a job with such terrible hours?
How can one even have an A if when your up everyone else is asleep. Does the job pay extra for such terrible hours?
How in the world did W ever come by this job anyway?
Who do you have to thank for leading her to her employer? LOL
I have to run. Need to head over to stable see my minie.
later,
grid, lost