If I thought landing on you like I did with LFL would help, I'd do it. But doggone it... this crap you are spewing...
It's just really beneath you, and you'd never, ever tolerate it out of me, were I doing the same thing. You are just way too dam intelligent for this hissy fit you are throwing. So, there must be some fear there, on your part, that keeps you from doing something different. Sorry, just don't buy the BTDT thing. You are on 2x marriage.