Hope you had a fun time at the book store!!!! Remember to be very vague and dreamy-eyed about your night out (think Marilyn Munroe). Also, if you don't normally wear make up all the time, start doing so. And doing your hair. And being very happy. Think happy and you'll feel happier. Also, you'll be shocked at how many men start to notice you. Even though you know you aren't "ready" for anything yet, it's a nice little ego booster.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.