Things are about the same. Some days are better than others. H has decided that we should hang out a few days a week together until the baby is born and then after that he feels that we will really bond as a family. But right now he cannot think about our relationship, only what is best for the baby.
You know what I think of his idea??? I think its crap. I think its more lies and trying to buy himself a few more weeks of fence sitting and cake eating. I just told him yeah right. whatever. I have gone back to GAL and not contacting him and really concentrating on the baby.
OW is still lurking. I am not sure the extent. A good friend of mine saw her drive by H's 4 times in 30 minutes the other day. He was home too. She never stopped, just drove by. Obviously she is insecure about whatever the hell they have going too. Sounds like H just gives her enough carrot in her face to keep her around as well and leaves her hanging.
Not much new. As much as I love him I am getting worn out with all of this. I would give anything to have anyone else in the world be this baby's father.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
