All Hope is lost/Help - Part 2

[seekpeaceofmind]

I hope others will chime in here ... any LBS girls felt they had to romance their WAH?

My H won't let me romance him - hasn't wanted that for months. I do think that he felt that I wasn't nurturing enough - I didn't fuss over him when he would get injured or his blood pressure was high, etc. (He was the youngest in his family and his mother and sisters used to make a big deal of health related issues.) I guess all you can do read the signals of your particular situation. Maybe ask him - would he like you to reach out more or less than you are doing now? Would it be OK with him if you ask him out or over to the house or would he prefer to initiate? Doing active pursuit/romancing seems counter to the DB principles, but every situation has its own unique twists. . . .