Wow - W is just useless today. I took D last night after she suggested that she comes over "really early in the morning" to help me pack and move some stuff out. She IM'ed me at 10 to say that she was waiting for towels to dry, then again at 11:15 to say she was almost ready. AGAIN at 11:50 to say she was leaving. She got here at around 1pm, which makes no sense since it is a 20-30min drive. It was nice (and unusual) that she IM'ed me to tell me she was going to be late, but I basically wasted half a day while she fudged around.
We went out for lunch with D - It was fun, but W was really quiet. W didn't talk a whole lot. She got a text message from a friend, then started to complain about them. Finished up with "I don't talk to them much anymore since they don't like OM". I wanted to say something sarcastic, but I bit my tongue
Got home, D went to bed. W and I got everything out of the attic and we shoved as much as we could into her car and she drove it to her house. I'm going to get more stuff together while she's away.
W just seems 'empty' right now. She laughs, but not really consistently. I'd be interested to see if anything at all makes her happy, because it sure seams like it doesn't right now. Took down the Christmas tree today - Didn't say a word at all. Also found out today that she has $900 in payroll advances, so she's obviously financially secure right now...
Maybe it's just the way I feel today & yesterday, but she doesn't seem very 'attractive' at the moment. Not that I don't still love her, but she's nothing like the person I met almost five years ago. I just put a couple of wedding photos in a box, and it's like she's not even the same person anymore.
