Not sure what's going on with H, but he is acting very strange. He called me thursday at work and we had a brief but nice conversation and he ended it by telling me that he had to go to counseling and he would stop to see d12 but be late. Not problem.
Fast forward to yesterday, H calls me and he sounds very down. When i asked if all was ok he said he was stressed about everything. I asked if there is anything I could do and he said no.
Today he was at the house when I got back from the grocery store. He still was very withdrawn and quiet. At times he looked as though he was going to cry. I asked how his night was and he made a point to say he was home by 11:30 (right after work).
He did take the tree out and vacumed and I thanked him as I have a bad chest cold and was tired from doing just the regular household chores this morning.
He left to go to work, barely saying goodbye.
So, ever since his C appt on thursday, he is even more down than before. Not sure if something happened there or what. Whatever.
Now, here is what I am wondering, should I just leave him be or should I maybe send him a tm after he gets out of work just to see if he is ok. I don't know where his head or heart is but i see such pain in his eyes.