I just read your first post and your H sounds a bit like mine. He came home from work and just said he didn't want to be married anymore. He also refused counseling and a trial separation (although I moved out) he sees this as permanent, and does not want to work on things. Although he says he loves me and cares about me he just can't be married, huh? It doesn't make sense, not sure it ever will. You just need to focus on you and let him live his life, and by working on you make him realize what he is missing out on. Good luck to you, I wish you the best.
M 29/H32 M 7yrs/1 dog Bomb 10/18 M in apt 11/13/ H in the house 1st now
