All Hope is lost/Help - Part 2

[Jen_Jam]

Yes - focus on yourself, on what makes YOU happy.

You need your mental strength for interations with H, don't waste the time you have apart from him worrying about what he is thinking. While he is away enjoy yourself. I used to imagine that my H hadn't left me but was just staying over at a friend's house for the night, then I would enjoy myself - a nice bottle of wine, a Chinese takeaway and a chic flic and a bubble bath used to do the trick for me

Your H isn't himself right now, it's not normal behaviour but it's something he may just have to go through. Mine had to in order to appreciate what he had (ie me). my H did and said a lot of things that now he just plain wouldn't. Don't play with H's madness, let him sit in it a while.