Sorry about your sitch. I am glad you found this site because there are lots of supporting pepople here. Do you want to try and save your marriage? I was not sure from your post. I know this sounds really stupid, but one thing I do when it comes to H is if he does something to piss me off I don't respond to it right away. I will try to sleep on it and if it still bugs me in the morning then I will address it with him. Also, when you find yourself thinking about W immediately do something else. I went through this before with H and when I wanted to call him I would paint my nails so I could not dial his number. Silly tricks, but sometimes they do work. My H and I were really good friends too. We had a lot of goofy things in common that no one but us understood. To the rest of the world we were kind of weired, but to eachother we made perfect sense. I am also loosing a really good friend. Keep your chin up and post on how the ADs are working. I was against taking them myself. I may look into it though. I am in school and I need to work. I can't afford to keep having these really good days and bad days. My good days are good, but my bad days are really bad.
