PS. Forgot to clarify. The sexual affirmations. Should be given with sincerity and, while not too sparingly, not too over the top either. Don't need to tell you; when a person with low SE or shame issues hears too much praise they get idgity b/c they don't believe they're worthy of sustained high praise.
-Stigmata-
The difference between a warrior and an ordinary man is the warrior views everything as a challenge; the ordinary man views everything as either a blessing or a curse.
-Yaqui shaman Don Juan-
...and that holds 2x true for nice guy wussies, DJ
