Thank you Jeff. I had started to read your sitch just recently - shall go and catch up on it now!
I just read the forgiveness post in the KLA thread (I think) and already I'm starting to doubt myself.
However, I have been willing to forgive before (and have forgiven) but I've been shat on a couple more times after that. I think this is called self-preservation - tis just a pity h doesn't see it that way.