W's close friend called me again late last night pleading with me to work it out. She offered to take care of the kids so we could talk without interruptions. She said W told her that there was no A. I told her she is being lied to by my W. I told her my W does not want to talk R and that she acknowleges to me the A is real along with including my kids as part of her A.
W's friend says I am an excellent family guy and she cannot understand my W's obsession with being a drunken bar flirt as she never drank for over 8 years of our marriage. She believes that my W will have huge regret sometime in the future.
W's friend's last H had an A which resulted in a D for 2 families. She tells me that her ex-H is now having regret and trouble in his marriage. I suspect my W will have the same problem in her next relationship unless she can get some counseling to deal with her inner turmoil.
I suspect my W is not telling her friend the truth about the A because her friend was betrayed just as myself and W was so supportive of her during that time.
I also know of 3 secrets my W is keeping from her good friend but I will let them stay as secrets to her friend. 1) Friend's H (now Ex) was hitting on W at about the time I met W. 2) W's father had A most likely with hookers, was divorced from but living her mother and died from aids 3) W and I met in a dating service.
My W better wake up real quick because I am moving on to a happier life. I dont need to be living in a soap opera.
