How is that he is the one who has been unfaithful (and other deal breakers which I listed for him tonight) yet I am the one feeling guilty?
You might feel guilty because you took the step you didn't want to take, telling him you want the divorce. But there's no guilt that you deserve in that. Divorcing an unrepentant unfaithful spouse, no matter what words they wield about how "they want to be with you," is a matter of self-preservation, not selfishness.
Be very good to yourself right now. Vent here, and with any safe friends you have in the real world now.
Hugs and prayers,
Joe
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