She's ready to move on

[LL44]

Sharing a bed is an intimate thing for a woman. This is good.

Some days I'm convinced she has to leave and other days I feel that it would be best to take advantage of what I have now. There is no rush getting her out of here as long as I don't end up feeling like a doormat.

Its a fine line, isn't it? Part of me wants H soooo gone, but then I think how it might push us further away. Plus, with H here, the kids are here full time. I am not ready for that part of a separation, that's for sure.

can I become detached enough while sharing the house with my wife?

I worry about this too. But I think it depends on how much time you are together in the house, what she witnesses (moping around, or positive behavior, anger or peace...) and how you feel overall.